A Study on the Effect of Embarrassing Mechanism in Parents-Children Relationship and its Role in Deviational Behavior in the Youth (Based on Theoretical Model of Braithwaite)

Moral deviation and delinquency in the youth life do not appear in one form and have different and diverse meanings and concepts. Not only criminal or guilty youth are the ones who propel the society to continuous thinking and planning and trying for their readjustment to the society, but also there are many youths who have not done any guilt but are exposed to the danger of moral deviation. Supporting of these youths and preventing from their fall are considered. In this investigation it was tried to investigate the effect of consequence of making ashamed in parents and children`s relationships and its preventing role in appearing of the deviational behaviors of youths. For this purpose, the ideas of Braithwaite and Hirshi have been used about the social connection. The sense of belonging and dependency to the family and/ or parents is one of the most important elements in Hirshi`s theory of social connection, in his opinion, if a person has a high level of belonging to parents and/or the norms have been well inner in the person, in relationship with especial others, the sense of shame would be made and this sense of shame will prevent the person from doing of the guilt. The statistical population of this research was 13-19 years girl and boy youths of Babol city which has been investigated by the method of systematic random sampling of 400 samples by using of questionnaire. For analysis of the data, Pearson correlation coefficient, T-test and multivariate regression were used. Finally, the results of the research show a meaningful and reverse relationship between the embarrassing